God, you want me to do what?

There are a lot of things in life we do not understand. Has God called you to something that you just don’t get? In college, I was in awe of a painting hanging in one of the campus buildings that illustrated the story of what God asked Noah to do. Many days I would stop, mesmerized by it, and ponder the life of Noah. Lets briefly (I encourage you to read the whole thing if you have time) look at what God asked of Noah. As you read along, try to put yourself in his shoes.

Starting in Genesis Chapter 6,

“The Lord saw how great the wickedness of the human race had become on the earth, and that every inclination of the thoughts of the human heart was only evil all the time. 6 The Lord regretted that he had made human beings on the earth, and his heart was deeply troubled. 7 So the Lord said, “I will wipe from the face of the earth the human race I have created—and with them the animals, the birds and the creatures that move along the ground—for I regret that I have made them.” 8 But Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord. 9 This is the account of Noah and his family. Noah was a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked faithfully with God. 10 Noah had three sons: Shem, Ham and Japheth.11 Now the earth was corrupt in God’s sight and was full of violence. 12 God saw how corrupt the earth had become, for all the people on earth had corrupted their ways. 13 So God said to Noah, “I am going to put an end to all people, for the earth is filled with violence because of them. I am surely going to destroy both them and the earth. 14 So make yourself an ark of cypress[c] wood; make rooms in it and coat it with pitch inside and out. 15 This is how you are to build it: The ark is to be three hundred cubits long, fifty cubits wide and thirty cubits high.[d] 16 Make a roof for it, leaving below the roof an opening one cubit[e] high all around.[f] Put a door in the side of the ark and make lower, middle and upper decks. 17 I am going to bring floodwaters on the earth to destroy all life under the heavens, every creature that has the breath of life in it. Everything on earth will perish. 18 But I will establish my covenant with you, and you will enter the ark—you and your sons and your wife and your sons’ wives with you. 19 You are to bring into the ark two of all living creatures, male and female, to keep them alive with you. 20 Two of every kind of bird, of every kind of animal and of every kind of creature that moves along the ground will come to you to be kept alive. 21 You are to take every kind of food that is to be eaten and store it away as food for you and for them.” 22 Noah did everything just as God commanded him.”

So thinking along the lines of yourself being Noah, can you imagine all the thoughts or questions that immediately would flood your mind? (Yes, I said flood :)) I’d be thinking or maybe even saying out loud, “God, you want me to do what?!? You want me to build an ark that huge, how? You want me to be in it with all of the animals of the earth, and feed them? You want me to convince my family of the mission you’ve given me? What about my friends?” And the list could go on and on. Then think of all of the people around Noah. They were probably taunting and ridiculing him. “Noah, you’ve got to be crazy! You are going to waste your life building a silly boat for what? Like the earth will really flood, yeah, right! Even if a flood did come there is no way a boat you could make could withstand it.” I’m sure the things said to him and what was thought about him were the opposite of anything nice as they were all “wicked”. But as we read in verse 22, “Noah did everything just as God commanded him.”

In Chapter 7 and 8 of Genesis, Noah listened to all of what God had told him to do. Once he had finished building the ark he got in it with his family along with the animals and birds. “Then the Lord shut him in.” God brought a flood and “every living thing on the face of the earth was wiped out.” In Chapter 9 after Noah, his family, and all of the animals had left the ark ,He commanded them to “be fruitful and increase in number and fill the earth.” He then made a covenant saying, “This is the sign of the covenant I am making between me and you and every living creature with you, a covenant for all generations to come: 13 I have set my rainbow in the clouds, and it will be the sign of the covenant between me and the earth. 14 Whenever I bring clouds over the earth and the rainbow appears in the clouds, 15 I will remember my covenant between me and you and all living creatures of every kind. Never again will the waters become a flood to destroy all life. 16 Whenever the rainbow appears in the clouds, I will see it and remember the everlasting covenant between God and all living creatures of every kind on the earth.”

 

Has God asked you to do something in your life that seems in our human mind crazy or impossible? One of my favorite verses found in Isaiah 55:8-9 reminds us, “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ declares the Lord. ‘As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.’” He goes on to say in verse 11, “So is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.” Whatever God is calling you to do, no matter how hard it might be, lets look to Noah’s example. He was a man of great faith. That faith was the driving force that caused him to not only do what God said, but to also trust Him with the outcome.

In closing, I listened to a podcast the other day where a famous pastor had a daughter die of an asthma attack. Leaving the hospital after just saying goodbye to his precious daughter, his wife asked him to go back in and invite the medical staff to his church. In disbelief of the request, his wife explained that that is what their daughter would have wanted, so he did. Not only did they come, but they also accept Christ as their Savior. In this most painful of situations the pastor stated, “trust God with your whys.” Genesis 6:9b, “walk faithfully with God.”

Perspective: "First World Problems"

While in Haiti, our group played a game called “First World Problems” which is intended to put things into perspective. The example that I shared that night has really stuck with me. Before going on with my story I should probably explain for those of you who don’t know the meaning behind “first world problems”. It could be described as relatively trivial or minor problem or frustration implying contrast with serious problems such as those that may be experienced in the developing world. So the same example I came up with the night in Haiti, not having the right shoes to go with my outfit, happened to me this sunday as I was getting ready for church. Had I enough time, I would have changed my entire outfit. Ironically, later that afternoon, I was talking with a friend who is a missionary in another country. As we were discussing the Lions and things we saw negatively about the football league he said, “first world problems.” BAM there it was, fresh in my mind. I remembered my shoe struggles from the morning and found myself guilty again. When you see kids with no shoes on their feet, you’d think you’d never forget. When you see people who have no food or water, you’d think you’d never forget. When you see people without adequate shelter, clothing, medical help, and the list could go on...you don’t ever want to lose that perspective.

How are you looking at life? Are your eyes focused on the petty things going on in your own world, or are you looking at the world in big picture, the things that really matter through God’s eyes. Romans 8:5 says, “For those who live according to the flesh have their mind set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.” Galatians repeats and expands this in 5:16-17 and 22-24, “So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want...But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires”.

My favorite quote is said by a man who lived out those verses, Jim Elliot. If you have not heard his story I would urge you to read his biography or watch “The End of the Spear” a movie made about his life. In short, Jim became a missionary in Ecuador and his goal was to spread the gospel even to a remote tribe of indians, called Auca. After making contact on a return trip, himself and 4 other men were speared to death. Later, his and another wife went on to make relations with the same tribe that killed her husband and ended up leading them to Christ. Jim wrote, “He is no fool to give up what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose”. How much of your life is spent worrying about things that are not important from an eternal viewpoint? Let’s ask God to show us the world through His eyes.

What is a true relationship?

The other day a guy said to me, “I know you, but you don’t know me.” Has this ever happened to you? Often because of the work I do, my reputation precedes me, so I get this often. Especially today, because of modern technology, with google search, facebook, and linkedin, you can find out a lot about someone. In truth, all of this knowledge only means you know facts (or sometimes falsehoods), but you don’t actually have a real relationship with them.

That got me thinking, what makes a true relationship? I thought about some of the best relationships I’ve been blessed with over the years and the things that make them so special. Proverbs 20:6 says, “Many will say they are loyal friends, but who can find one who is truly reliable?” Let’s look at some of the passages of the Bible that make up a genuine relationship which are as described, rare treasures.

In a true relationship, you are strengthened…
-Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”

In a true relationship, you are encouraged…

-Proverbs 27:9, “Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice.”

-Ephesians 4:29, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”

In a true relationship, you are challenged and kept accountable…

-Proverbs 27:17, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

-Proverbs 27:6, “Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy.”

In a true relationship, you are prayed for…

-2 Timothy 1:2-4, “To Timothy, my dear son: Grace, mercy and peace from god the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord. I thank God, whom I serve, as my ancestors did, with a clear conscience, as night and day I constantly remember you in my prayers. Recalling your tears, I long to see you, so that I may be filled with joy.”

In a true relationship, you are unconditionally and sacrificially loved…

-Proverbs 17:17, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”

-Philippians 2:3-4, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interest of others.”

-John 15:13, “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friend.”

This week, in my sunday school class we talked about the value of true relationships. We then read the example of David and Jonathan. Here is a tidbit of their story...1 Samuel 18:1-3, “After David had finished talking with Saul, he met with Jonathan, the king’s son. There was an immediate bond between them, for Jonathan loved David. From that day on Saul kept David with him and wouldn’t let him return home. And Jonathan made a solemn pact with David, because he loved him as he loved himself.” Many of you have been blessed with a best friend as described above; one who pushes you to be your best, has your back, is there with you through the good and the bad, and loves you unconditionally. We can have great relationships but none will be perfect and we as well won’t always be the friend we should be. Jesus is the perfect friend who sticks closer than a brother. As it says in Jeremiah 31:3, “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.” As you study these scriptures you will learn to know; He will never let you down, He always understands and knows what’s best, and He loves you so much that He laid down His life for you! If you don’t KNOW Him today, get to know Him.

Role Models

When I was a little girl I wanted to be a professional athlete when I grew up. Gail Devers caught my attention, not only with her outrageous nails, but also as she flew out of the blocks past her competitors. Posters lined my ceiling of Jackie Joyner-Kersee who was the best in the heptathlon, Stacy Dragila who flew over the pole in the vault, and Lisa Leslie as she was the first woman to dunk in the WNBA. I looked up to these women and wanted to be just like them. They were my role models.

This past weekend we had a shower for my sister-in-law and soon-to-come niece. To be funny, I bought a onesie that said “my aunt rocks.” As I was wrapping the present many thoughts came to mind. What will my little niece think about me? Will I be a good role model? Thoughts of my own aunts then flooded my mind. They all are special and unique in their own way as they accomplish much with the lives God has given them. What stand out far more to me than all they can achieve, is their bold faith and love for the Lord.

When we look at the Bible we can also find many individuals who stand out and can serve as a model for us to emulate. Whatever we are facing in life, we can find great encouragement in looking at the lives of faith, patience, perseverance, and courage that others before us have exampled. A good place to start looking is Hebrews 11, “the hall of faith” where many Christ followers are listed for the way they lived their lives with admirable faith. It takes great courage to live a life of faith; Moses as he lead the people through the Red Sea, Esther approached the King without being called, David fought Goliath with a sling and a stone, Daniel prayed in public and was thrown in the lion’s den, Noah built an ark when he had never seen rain, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego faced the fire when they would not bow down, Mary as she gave birth to her son as a virgin, and the list goes on. Not only did some face great trails, but some such as Stephen, Peter, and Paul gave it all as they became martyrs living the life God called them to.

Jesus Christ is the only one worthy of striving to be like, the perfect role model. In John 13 as Jesus was washing His disciples feet, He instructed them to follow His example. Philippians chapter 2 directs us to be imitators of Christ’s humility. Ephesians 5:1-2 says, “Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.” Paul goes on to says in 1 Corinthians 10:33-11:1, “For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they might be saved. Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.”

Take some time to think about the topic of role models:

Who are your role models?

Is Jesus your role model?

Are you a role model to others?

Do you live a life that causes others to know or grow closer to God?

What things can you work on to be more like Jesus?

Pre-Game Pep Talk

The warm air turns into slightly cooler temperatures, perfect for wearing your worn-in, cozy sweatshirt/sweater and jeans. Instead of getting your coffee iced, its now time to settle down with a hot apple cider chai or pumpkin spiced latte. The pumpkin patches are ready for you to come get your pumpkin to carve and the apple orchards are ready for you to pick some juicy ones for a homemade pie. The leaves are changing into what is soon to be a magnificent display of fiery colors. It’s fall in Northern Michigan, my favorite time of year! If the things I listed above weren’t splendid enough, the best part I have to say is...IT’S FOOTBALL SEASON!

 

 

If you’ve ever played football, or any sport for that matter, you know that the pre-game pep talk is vitally important to getting the game started right. When you step onto the field you must be in the right frame of mind; confident, focused, and at the same time “pumped up” to play. Your coach gives you some words that are instructive and encouraging before he/she sends you off to play. As I was reading the Bible the other day, I was reminded of this when I came upon God’s talk with Joshua before he was going to lead the people. Lets take a look at the text…

Joshua 1:1-9,

After the death of Moses the servant of the Lord, the Lord said to Joshua son of Nun, Moses’ aide: 2 “Moses my servant is dead. Now then, you and all these people, get ready to cross the Jordan River into the land I am about to give to them—to the Israelites. 3 I will give you every place where you set your foot, as I promised Moses. 4 Your territory will extend from the desert to Lebanon, and from the great river, the Euphrates—all the Hittite country—to the Mediterranean Sea in the west. 5 No one will be able to stand against you all the days of your life. As I was with Moses, so I will be with you; I will never leave you nor forsake you. 6 Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the land I swore to their ancestors to give them.7 “Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. 8 Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. 9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

BE STRONG AND COURAGEOUS

-vs. 6, 7, 9, and even the final words of the chapter repeat this command. God knows that the battles of life will be hard and that the opposition will be fierce, but He commands Joshua to go into this battle with strength and courage…

GODS GOT YOUR BACK

-vs. 5, “…I will never leave you or forsake you.” vs. 9, “...For the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” We can be strong and courageous because we know God is right there with us. He’s on your team!

LEAD THE PEOPLE

-vs. 6, “...you will lead the people to inherit the land…”. God was talking to Joshua about leading the people into the land promised to them. It is our duty as Christians to lead others to Christ and the land (Heaven) He has promised to those who believe and accept Jesus Christ as their personal Savior. What kind of a team mate are we if we don’t share this with our family, friends, co-workers, and those we come in contact with?

THE PLAY BOOK

-vs. 7 and 8 talk about the “Book of the Law” and how we are to learn it and follow it which leads to success. Just like the playbook is foundational to how you run your game in football, the Bible should also be foundational to how we live as Christ-followers. Study it so you know how to play, huddle together with other believers, and look to the ultimate coach, God, to call the plays.

Learning from Peter's Walk on Water

Matthew 14:22-33

22 Immediately Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side, while he dismissed the crowd. 23 After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone, 24 and the boat was already a considerable distance from land, buffeted by the waves because the wind was against it.

25 Shortly before dawn Jesus went out to them, walking on the lake. 26 When the disciples saw him walking on the lake, they were terrified. “It’s a ghost,” they said, and cried out in fear.

27 But Jesus immediately said to them: “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.”

28 “Lord, if it’s you,” Peter replied, “tell me to come to you on the water.”

29 “Come,” he said.

Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. 30 But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, “Lord, save me!”

31 Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. “You of little faith,” he said, “why did you doubt?”

32 And when they climbed into the boat, the wind died down. 33 Then those who were in the boat worshiped him, saying, “Truly you are the Son of God.”

Be Courageous and Listen to His Call verses 27-29

Will you be like Peter, having the courage to get out of the boat and step out onto the water? Many times we are like the other disciples who stayed safely in the boat. Will you be brave and listen to what God is calling you to do? This might be the calling of Him drawing you into a personal relationship with Himself, calling you to accept Him as your Savior. This might be the call of Him asking you to trust Him in a situation that you know you can’t handle on your own.


Don’t Get Distracted by the Waves verse 30

Storms surround us in this life. It is not all smooth sailing as we all know and can attest to. There are so many circumstances that will arise, that if we allow them to, will take our focus off of God. Just like Peter began to sink, we also start to sink as we look around and let the strong waves suck us under. We know, as it says in 1 Peter 5:8, “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” He will hit you with waves from all sides trying anything he can do to keep you away from the great things God wants to do in your life.

 

 

Have Faith and Call Out for His Help verses 30b-31

God is not calling us to trust in our circumstances. He is calling us to trust in His power! He is the perfector of working out situations that in our minds are impossible. Later, in the book of Matthew Jesus says to them, “with man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” There is also a verse in Job 42:2 that states, “I know that you can do all things; no purpose of yours can be thwarted.” When you are in the storm, have faith in what He can do, and like Peter did, call out, “Lord, save me!”


Worship Him and Let Him Use Your Life to Show His Power verses 32-33

When He does great things in your life, make sure you point to Him, worship Him, and give Him the glory He is due. So many times when a situation works out we throw up a quick “thank you prayer” and move on. God might have a bigger purpose for the mighty “waves” we are facing. A purpose to show His great power through circumstances in your life that to the world watching, and maybe even to just yourself, shows what He can do.

So I ask you today...

1. Will you go, stepping out of the boat, trusting in His power to see you through in what He is calling you to do?

2. Will you focus on Jesus and not the waves of your situations?

3. Will you have faith enough to trust Him and call out for His help, not depending on your own strength?

4. Lastly, in however God works through the storm, will you worship Him and allow Him to use your life for His purposes?

Parts of a Race

 

This past weekend I did a triathlon with my sister, along with my dad, brother, some friends, and many other competitors. The race was along a beautiful course that involved climbing up the National Sleeping Bear Sand Dunes during the running portion, riding your bike around two gorgeous crystal blue lakes, and kayaking (yes, thankfully instead of swimming). As we were participating in the longest portion of the race, the bike ride, a bible verse came to my mind that I had taught my Sunday School girls a short time ago. In the first part of Hebrews 12 it says, “...And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of our faith.”

 

Preparation

To perform at your optimum, you must train and prepare for the course you are racing. Whatever the sport, practice is the key to ready yourself to execute the race. Reading and studying the Bible allows the Holy Spirit to bring to mind what God says about things when you face situations of daily living, just like staying “fit” for a race.You’ll remember what God said and be able to make the right decisions and have the right frame of mind. Prayer, which is talking with God, also prepares you in a supernatural way when you encounter the unexpected. Psalm 25:4-5 says, "Show me your ways, O Lord, teach me your paths; guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long."

Potholes

Just like in a race where you might get a flat tire, flip your kayak, or like my sister, have your bike chain fall off, life is full of obstacles and trials. When these trials come God, has commanded us as in Joshua 1:9, “...Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” James 1:2-3 says, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” We won’t always know in this life why God allows us to face certain potholes to land in our path. We know that God sees the bigger picture, and those ugly situations can make us stronger, and we never know just how He might be using those things for His glory.

Partner

In this life we need others to encourage and help us with the challenges of life. This might be someone on the side of the road who says, “Great job. You can do it. Keep going.” as they ring a bell and clap for you. This might be the person out in the water with the boat that helps you flip and get back into your kayak. Or this might be the one who is by your side running the race with you. God has given us people to come along side of us and run this race with us for many purposes. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 says, “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone. Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken”.

Perseverance

Sometimes the race is long and we can get exhausted, but God calls us to remain constant to our purpose and rely on His strength. Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”. When you feel like you can’t keep going, hold fast to His power and remember He goes before you. Colossians 1:11,17 “...being strengthened with all power according to His glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience...He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.”

Prize
Philippians 3:14 says, “I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me Heavenward in Christ Jesus.” At the end of this race, this life, where will you stand? James 1:12 says, “Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love Him.” Eternal life in Heaven with our Creator is the most epic prize there will ever be. Are you running your race in such a way as to receive “the prize”?

What's In A Name?

Have you ever sat and thought about the names given for God in the Bible and what they mean for you and I? At a friend’s church I was visiting in Chicago last weekend, they asked men to come up and read Bible verses during the worship service that spoke on the different names of God. I was overwhelmed as I listen to them read, just dwelling on the power of His names. Think of what they mean to you as you read a few...

“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”-Isaiah 9:6

“I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me just as the Father knows me and I know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep.”-John 10:14-15

“Jesus answered, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.’”-John 14:6

“So we say with confidence, ‘The Lord is my Helper; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?’”-Hebrews 13:6

“The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer, my God, my rock, in whom I take refuge; my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.”-Psalm 18:2

“The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” -which means “God with us.”-Matthew 1:23

“I am the Alpha and the Omega,” says the Lord God, “who is, and who was, and who is to come, the Almighty.”-Revelation 1:8

So what are we to do with His name? First of all, we need to believe on His name. We are to praise His name, gather together in His name, find comfort, strength, peace...in His name. Proclaim His name, pray and call out to His name! Take time and look up some verses for yourself (there is an abundance). A relationship between two parties is spending time together and getting to know each other. God’s names reveal things about Him and help us know Him more as James 4:8 says, “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you...”

What makes a hero?

What makes a hero?

Two things come to my mind when I think of what a “hero” is: courage to do what is right even in the face of great opposition, in some cases even death, and putting the good/lives of others above your own.

July 24th, 2012 I received the numbing news that my friend, classmate, neighbor, and hero- Marine Sgt. Justin Hansen had been shot and killed while serving in Operation Enduring Freedom. A familiar verse (written on the tombstone of my brave cousin who died trying to save his friend) immediately came to mind. John 15:13 says, “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friend.” As thousands who have fought in the past, and many who continue to fight today, they have purchased and continue to defend the freedom and liberties we are blessed with as Americans. We are forever grateful for their sacrifices.

There is a hero that paid the ultimate price for the freedom we can have in this life and the next. Jesus Christ came to earth to die so that we can have the opportunity to have freedom from our sins. John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Like all who knew Justin, we are proud to know our heroes. So the question I ask you today is this...do you know Jesus Christ? Have you accepted His free gift and have a relationship with Him? If so, remember daily and live, knowing the ultimate price He paid in laying down His life for you.

A Woman of Valor

[In light of this past weekend being mother's day, this weeks devotional is dedicated to my mother as she beautifully embodies the qualities of the “Proverbs 31 Woman”]

The Bible tells of many women who God has used greatly for His wonderful plans. If you are striving to be a woman after God’s heart, not only can you look to these individuals, but there also is a great passage of scripture found in Proverbs to help guide you. If you are a man reading, single, and searching for a wife, here are some qualities to help guide you in your search. If you find a woman that possesses many of these characteristics, like it says in Prov. 31:10, “She is worth far more than rubies”. If you are already a hubby; cherish, honor, encourage, and pray for these attributes in your wife.

Proverbs 31- A Woman of Valor

1. She is trustworthy and of great integrity

vs. 11-12, ”Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.”

2. She works hard and does not complain

vs. 13-14, “She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar.”

vs. 18, “She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night”.

3. She takes care of her family

vs. 15, “She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls.”

vs. 21, “When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.”

4. She is smart and conducts business

vs. 16, “She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard”.

vs. 24, “She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes.”

5. She is strong and skilled at her tasks

vs. 17, “She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her task”.

vs. 19, “In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her hands”.

6. She helps the poor and needy

vs. 20, “She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy”.

7. She takes care of herself

vs. 22, “She makes covering for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple”.

8. She causes others to respect her husband because of her behavior

vs. 23, “Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land”.

9. She has a positive outlook on life

vs. 25, “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come”.

10. She is looked up to and is full of wise counsel

vs. 26, “She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue”.

11. She looks out for her family's good and has good morals

vs. 27, “She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.”

12. She makes her family proud

vs. 28-29, “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: ‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all’”.

13. She may be beautiful on the outside, but her true beauty radiates from within because of her relationship with God

vs. 30, “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but the woman who fears the Lord is to be praised”.

Women, if you would like to know more about these characteristics and make them more a part of the woman you are, I would encourage you take more time studying these scriptures and pray that God would help you. Many of us have women that we know or may be a part of our families, that possess these characteristics. Watch what they do, learn from them, maybe even have conversations with them or ask them if they would mentor you. Also, a great study that I am doing is “Becoming the Woman God Wants Me To Be: A 90-Day Guide to Living the Proverbs 31 Life,” by Donna Partow.